Sunday Talk: Family is not just a one thing; it is a whole thing

Lijo George
3 min readJun 18, 2023

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Family is not just a one-dimensional concept; it is an intricate tapestry that weaves together the very fabric of our lives. As a writer, I have come to understand that family is not limited to a single definition or confined to blood relations. It encompasses a beautiful mosaic of relationships, connections, and shared experiences that shape our identities and touch our souls.

For me, family is a tapestry that extends beyond the boundaries of biology. It is the chosen family I have gathered along my journey, the friends who have become my pillars of support, and the companions who have stood by my side through thick and thin. These connections are bound by love, trust, and mutual understanding, creating a sense of belonging that is just as powerful as any blood tie.

In this tapestry, I find comfort and solace during life’s trials and tribulations. When I am feeling lost or overwhelmed, it is my family who wraps me in a warm embrace, reminding me that I am never alone. They are the ones who listen without judgment, who offer guidance and encouragement, and who believe in me even when I doubt myself. Their presence is a constant reminder that I am part of something greater, part of a whole that lifts me up and helps me find my way.

But family is not always a picture-perfect tableau. It can be messy, complicated, and filled with ups and downs. We face disagreements, misunderstandings, and moments of tension. However, it is within these imperfect moments that the true strength of family shines through. We learn to communicate, to forgive, and to grow together. Our shared experiences, both joyous and challenging, become the threads that strengthen our bond and deepen our love for one another.

Family is also a tapestry of traditions, rituals, and shared memories. It is the laughter that echoes through our gatherings, the stories that are passed down from generation to generation, and the unique customs that shape our identities. These threads weave together the tapestry of our collective history, providing a sense of continuity and belonging that transcends time.

In my own life, I have come to appreciate the richness and diversity of this familial tapestry. It is a tapestry that celebrates different cultures, backgrounds, and perspectives. It teaches us acceptance, empathy, and the beauty of embracing our differences. It is a constant reminder that family is not confined by narrow definitions, but rather, it is a kaleidoscope of colors and textures that make life vibrant and meaningful.

So, as I reflect on the tapestry of family in my own life, I am filled with gratitude and awe. I cherish the threads that have been woven together to create a sense of belonging, love, and support. And I recognize that this tapestry will continue to evolve and grow, with new connections and experiences adding depth and richness to the story of my family.

Family is not just a one thing; it is a whole thing that encompasses the essence of who we are and the love we share. It is a tapestry that extends beyond bloodlines, embracing the beauty of chosen relationships. It is a testament to the power of connection, resilience, and the bonds that hold us together. So, let us cherish and nurture this tapestry, for it is a precious gift that sustains us through life’s journey.

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Lijo George
Lijo George

Written by Lijo George

Writer, Blogger, and Travel enthusiast. Talks about Self-improvement, Productivity, Psychology, and GrowthMindset

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